When you’re growing up, you start to idolise your father. He is your hero. He can do anything and you want to be like him.

The you start to demonise your father. You become rebellious and blame him for the things didn’t do for you. Sometime you blame him for your own shortcomings. ”Why didn’t he tell me to do this?”,”Why didn’t he buy me this?”,”Why didn’t he encourage me to follow my passion?”.

Finally, as you grow up and you make your own mistakes, you’ll humanise your father. You realise he was just trying to do his best and you accept him for who he is and accept yourself for who you are.